Classmate gives liver to friend's daughter
By Jeffery Kurz , Record-Journal staff
September 28, 2008
MERIDEN - In the late 1960s, Paul Van Almkerk and Stephen Foell were part of a close circle of Meriden friends who went to Xavier High School in Middletown.
The two have remained close over the years, but nothing could have prepared them for the bond that exists now.
In late August, Foell donated part of his liver in a transplant operation to save the life of Van Almkerk's daughter, Kayla, who has cystic fibrosis.
"The decision for me, it was actually the easiest decision in the world," Foell said.
"You have people like this in your life," he said. "To me, he was like family."
Today, Foell and Van Almkerk both live in Massachusetts, Foell in Dorchester and Van Almkerk in Ipswich.
Both still have family in Meriden and return to the city regularly. Van Almkerk, who graduated from Xavier in 1969, says he still tries to make it to the football game between the high school rivals Maloney and Platt.
Both played football for Xavier, both were ends, and Van Almkerk recalls beating Maloney his senior year at a game played at Palmer Field in Middletown.
After high school, Foell served in the Army while Van Almkerk attended Northeastern University in Boston, graduating in 1974. Van Almkerk eventually earned a doctoral degree, in education, from the University of Cali-fornia. Today, he works as a consultant for mental health organizations.
Foell is a registered nurse who works for the state of Massachusetts as a consultant for people with cognitive disabilities.
For a time, the two were roommates, in Cambridge, when Foell was attending the University of Massachusetts and Almkerk was at Boston University.
"We were close, we always stayed connected," Foell said.
Kayla, who is 15, was diagnosed with cystic fibrosis when she was 18 months old. Cystic fibrosis is an inherited disease in which a genetic defect causes the body to produce thick mucus that clogs the lungs and obstructs the pancreas.
An estimated 30,000 Americans have cystic fibrosis. Fifty years ago, few children were expected to survive the disease. Today, those afflicted can live well into adulthood.
Neither Paul Van Almkerk nor his wife, Janice, had a family history of the disease, he said.
Though Kayla's childhood has been full of struggle, she has managed to stay involved in typical youthful activities, including swimming, skiing, music and playing soccer.
"This is a kid who would have a few excuses to miss school, but she didn't," Van Almkerk said. "She very much wants to have a regular life."
When she was 11, Kayla underwent a splenectomy, and at that time Van Almkerk recalls doctors expressing concern about the condition of her liver. In February this year, the family was told she would need a liver trans-plant within six months.
"Kayla's lungs today are relatively healthy," Van Almkerk said. "The liver took the major hit."
In most liver transplants, the liver or liver tissue comes from a deceased donor. About 17,000 Americans are on a waiting list for a liver transplant, according to the American Liver Foundation.
"There's not enough cadaver donors coming in and consequently you have to be almost critically ill to be moved to the top of the list," Van Almkerk said.
The liver is the one body organ that can regenerate itself. In living donor transplants, both the donor's liver and the donated portion grow back to normal size. In both deceased and living donor transplants, blood type and body size are important in determining a proper match.
There were five friends along with Foell who volunteered to become donors for Kayla, said Van Almkerk. After the first was ruled out, Foell underwent a testing process that took four months.
"Each step of the way we would be elated, saying, OK, he got through that test, he got through that test," re-called Van Almkerk.
The operation took place Aug. 28. Kayla is now back at Massachusetts General Hospital, undergoing testing. Foell says his recovery runs "hot and cold," with a few hours a day when he feels energetic enough for activi-ties. Most of the time, he's tired while his body works hard to restore his liver.
"You're lethargic all the time, your body takes a lot of energy from you," he said. "It's working very hard."
"It's a very difficult healing process for both," said Lauren McMahon, a spokeswoman for the American Liver Foundation. "The patient usually feels better immediately. The other person is in a lot more pain, because they didn't have any pain when they got in."
While he's satisfied, Foell says he's holding back on celebrating until five months down the road when he'll have a better view of Kayla's recovery. "I'd be walking on air," he said. "I'm still keeping my fingers crossed."
"It's hard to express your thanks," Van Almkerk said. "He didn't ever expect it from me, he never hesitated." And Van Almkerk said the generosity of his friends "has blown me away."
While the family has health insurance coverage, it has not been nearly enough to cover the expenses associated with Kayla's medical care. The Kayla Jane Fund Committee has set a goal of raising $150,000 by the fall of 2009. Van Alkerk says he's already grateful for the support shown in Ipswich.
More information about the fund is available on the Web, at www.KaylaJaneFund.com. Donations can also be sent to the Kayla Jane Fund at First National Bank of Ipswich, care of Lauri Carlson, 31 Market St., Ipswich, MA 01938.
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